General News
30 October, 2022
Domestic violence is everybody’s business
OCTOBER 16 was a day many women and men will not forget after attending the AFL Cape York Boys House students & South 32 Eagles Football Club’s annual “Stand up Against Domestic and Family Violence” High Tea.
Domestic violence survivor Angela Barker, OAM, and her parents were the guest speakers at the High Tea.
There was not a dry eye in the audience as they bravely shared the incident that changed their lives but, more importantly, their resilience, passion for life and love for one another.
Ms Barker spoke openly with the audience and shared insights into how a relationship should be and what to look out for.
“A relationship should be loving, kind and respectful,” she said.
“Women always need to seek help immediately, do not wait, speak to authorities, seek alternative accommodation. Listen to friends and family if they tell you the relationship is unhealthy.
“Don’t put up with any disrespect or bad behaviours. Keep yourself safe and secure.”
More than $15,000 was raised for domestic and family violence through an auction on the day. Ange’s mother, Helen, shared that they do not want anyone else to go through what they had been through, not if it is avoidable.
“We were so inspired by great people at the High Tea,” Helen said.
“Rick Hanlon and his team are just wonderful. Rick has vision and purpose and just gets in and gets it done and makes things better for everyone.
“All women, everyone really, if they realise that things aren’t going right at the start of a relationship, don’t think it will improve.
“Get out while you can and move on with your life so no one destroys or stops you from living your dreams and achieving your goals in life.”
Member for Cook, Cynthia Lui MP, attended the high tea and was honoured to hear Ange speak.
“Thank you, AFL Cape York House, for putting together another outstanding High Tea event to raise community awareness of domestic and family violence (DFV) and to send a clear message that DFV in families and homes will not be tolerated,” Ms Lui said.
“I thank Ange for her presence, strength and resilience to be a strong advocate for DV survivors and create community awareness of this important issue.
“As always, I am proud of the boys from AFL Cape York House for taking a leading role in this important event.
“Thank you, Rick Hanlon and the Cape York AFL House team, for investing in our young Indigenous men to become DV Champions and stand up against domestic and family violence in their community,” she said.
